She doesn't talk about him, unless I have asked... or unless he came up in a normal conversation. The texts were from about 3 weeks ago. I know I shouldn't have read them but I did...and it sucks. She was only single for a few weeks and I was single for 3 or 4 months. I guess maybe it is too soon for her..
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Originally Posted by rsx
Too late, seed of doubt is already planted - it'll just grow into a mighty tree of doubt and insecurity. Get out and start fresh.
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I think the biggy for me was the her saying she still loved him. If she was telling him she missed him or was still generally just upset about the natural upsets in a breakup (ie getting used to being freinds, or not). or EVEN if she was comparing me to him. I think Id be okay. Because I think that everyone knows that it's pretty hard not to do it. I've done it subconsiously.. and I want nothing to do with my ex...
all of that could have happened and not instilled this "doubt" in my mind. Your right. As soon as she said "I still love you" I think thats what made me want to get out. It immediately made it go from something that can be overcome... to something thats not even worth my time..