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"I don't mean to be insulting to the Chinese tradition but if she loves you, then the hell with her parents."
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this line i really like. its unfortunate that she doesnt see it that way. i find she's scared of her parents and doesnt wanna go against them. She gives me the "if you really love me you wouldnt make me choose between you or my parents"
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It's more of if your really are a strong believer in tradition. The way your going sounds like you've already lost hope, and I would personally say let it go, holding it together will most likely fall apart later down the road.
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i havent lost hope yet but its definitely hard to find hope under the circumstances. Im also flip/chinese halfy so i definitely understand the chinese tradition but i am also a rebel and a liberated person.