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I respect you going to mother land and being polite to seek for permission, props to you.
You two are mature enough where the girl SHOULD say fuck you all, i'm in love with this guy and I'm marrying him. I do and can understand why her family (being very traditional people) why they would reject you.
I am more worried about the current situation right now. She lives at home which is EXTREMELY common in the Asian culture. You should totally understand this. She's said she is in school and she can't support herself... how will you support her?
You got disowned by your family. Whether you're doing drugs, having her live with you or whatever it is, can you honestly say you (still) 1) love this girl 2) able to take care of her financially? (while she is in school) ?
One thing you need to figure out is how to make amends with your family. Your family is the only place where it's unconditional love is, if you can't make it work with your family, I sort of don't see how you can make things work if you have a wife. You're an adult (not in your early 20s) and should know what it means to have family support and have loving family.
Lastly... you've been "entertaining" other women, are you even able to be loyal and know what it means to be single... I just dont' want to you to go down the road of the guys out there that cheats on their gf cause things are "boring".
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