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melloman · 06-24-2011, 01:41 PM

v. Rossi: You ever been in a tight-knit long relationship?
How many relationships you been in?

Lots of people DON'T like to date. They DON'T want the stress. Some people would rather find companionship in lets say a dog, instead of a women. I have friends/family who don't care to date, they have tons of friends and don't find the need for a SO. What about people who don't want kids, don't want to have sex, don't want to bother with someone elses problems?

When in a relationship your thinking for yourself and someone else. You might not be able to go out and buy that new thing, because you have to pay a more expensive rent, or pay more for groceries. Stuff gets more expensive if living with 2 people, even if it's 50/50. I know if I moved in with my gf, we'd have to find a bigger place then if it was just me, because we need more room. And planning to see her, spend time with her. It's not the same as being single.

If your single, not dating, have no desire to date. It's NORMAL. One day you might get that desire to share your life with someone, or you might not.

06-24-2011, 01:41 PM	#30
melloman My homepage has been set to RS Join Date: May 2005 Location: #604 Posts: 2,267 Thanked 2,454 Times in 813 Posts Failed 146 Times in 72 Posts	v. Rossi: You ever been in a tight-knit long relationship? How many relationships you been in? Lots of people DON'T like to date. They DON'T want the stress. Some people would rather find companionship in lets say a dog, instead of a women. I have friends/family who don't care to date, they have tons of friends and don't find the need for a SO. What about people who don't want kids, don't want to have sex, don't want to bother with someone elses problems? When in a relationship your thinking for yourself and someone else. You might not be able to go out and buy that new thing, because you have to pay a more expensive rent, or pay more for groceries. Stuff gets more expensive if living with 2 people, even if it's 50/50. I know if I moved in with my gf, we'd have to find a bigger place then if it was just me, because we need more room. And planning to see her, spend time with her. It's not the same as being single. If your single, not dating, have no desire to date. It's NORMAL. One day you might get that desire to share your life with someone, or you might not.