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Originally Posted by ConCho
If you aren't happy and bored of the relationship. Do not prolong it because you will be wasting her time and your time too. If it's boring for you chances are it might be boring for her too.
I don't want to be a douche but for 11 + years that's pretty good already. A lot of people don't last.
Love isn't straight forward but all over the place. It wanders around.
Any who, good luck to you and I hope you find the right choice. IMO I would just break up, it's going to happen sooner or later (sorry for saying that) but since you are bored. I think it's a given
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At the same time... you can't expect a relationship to be great forever just because you are with the "right" person.. If you want a long lasting gratifying relationship, you need to communicate and spice things up in different ways, not just with sex, but with date nights etc.
People change all the time... so if you are with someone for 5 10 15 years, you will most likely have gone through many changes during the relationship.
So you guys can either adapt to each other as you change together... or you can end things and move on to a new person each time you have reached a different point in your life.....