[Yuffa]

That just sounds like disaster waiting to happen.....

I agree with TheNewGirl and quasi where I think you should take a second look at your current relationship. Think back to the time when you first started going out. What did you like about her? What made you want to protect her and call her your own?

Take the next birthday or anniversary and made an effort to make it count. Don't give in to the fantasy you have in your mind with the new girl. If she can cheat on her current bf what makes you think she won't cheat on you after the honey moon period?