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Old 08-04-2011, 01:14 AM   #23
muteki
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Originally Posted by Lamboda View Post
I agree with v.Rossi here, but I personally would have a time limit of about 1 hour. I'd make her wanting more even if it means choosing to end a little early because it shows you have something to do later and are not a wimp but that's something I would do.

I can only offer you my advice so I advise you to take her to a coffee shop. It shows that you are interesting if you can maintain an interesting conversation. It also allows for you to have different opportunities such as walking outside etc.

I would also suggest you paying for the drink/meal because it would make the date a date unless she tells you she tells you otherwise.

Finally I would like to address one matter that irritates me, you can take it or leave it. If you are going to have dinner with her please Please PLEASE TRY NOT TO WHIP OUT YOUR PHONE UNLESS IT'S AN EMERGENCY. IT IS VERY RUDE. People these days cannot live without checking their phone(s) every two minutes. You cut the connection as soon as you check your text or call someone--it just kills the mood.

As always, just make up your own mind.
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Originally Posted by trancehead View Post
yes bingo. alot of people lack some basic manners. I have a berry, and if its not in my pocket, i leave it facedown on the table on silent.
Yes please don't be fidgeting with your phone all the time, some guys keep doing it while waiting for food to come, movies to start, etc. It's pretty rude and annoying since they can't seem to carry a conversation or anything while being completely distracted by texting, surfing, or gaming.
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