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Old 08-04-2011, 12:03 PM   #32
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Originally Posted by Lamboda View Post
I agree with v.Rossi here, but I personally would have a time limit of about 1 hour. I'd make her wanting more even if it means choosing to end a little early because it shows you have something to do later and are not a wimp but that's something I would do.

I can only offer you my advice so I advise you to take her to a coffee shop. It shows that you are interesting if you can maintain an interesting conversation. It also allows for you to have different opportunities such as walking outside etc.

I would also suggest you paying for the drink/meal because it would make the date a date unless she tells you she tells you otherwise.

Finally I would like to address one matter that irritates me, you can take it or leave it. If you are going to have dinner with her please Please PLEASE TRY NOT TO WHIP OUT YOUR PHONE UNLESS IT'S AN EMERGENCY. IT IS VERY RUDE. People these days cannot live without checking their phone(s) every two minutes. You cut the connection as soon as you check your text or call someone--it just kills the mood.

As always, just make up your own mind.
bout fucken time i heard this.

i've watch a few dates happen where he talks normal, then *ring* phone goes off and he picks up and starts to talk all ganster to his buddies and act all hard. LOL girl walks up and leaves for washroom , his phone call ends and he waits around for her. She comes back and tells him that she has an emergency and she needs to leave. Guy is left with the bill and forever alone.



everydate ive gone on and had a work phone, ive always let her know that i have one and sometimes leave it on the table on vibrate. Never to ring cuz i find ringers are so rude to hear on a date. if it vibrates, they usually ask " arent you gonna pick it up? its your work " and i usually reply " naw its not important enough." just another peice of mind for her so she knows im pay attention to her.

doesnt always work, but when it does........
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