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The question becomes are you not dating because...
a) You're not able to get a date
b) You hate the act of dating
c) You don't have time to date
"A" is a totally different topic so I'll assume that isn't the case.
For "B" I think most people hate the whole thing of dating. The first 2 or 3 weeks, at a minimum, are painstaking and in the end they might be for nothing. Unfortunately, if you're 20+, it's a necessary evil, most of us don't have the comfort of dating someone we've been friends with for years.
For "C" it's completely understandable if you have school or professional commitments. However, if this lasts for more than a couple of years I think you need to set your priorities. Lots of money and letters before your name are great, but really, someone standing next to you is the most important.
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