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Old 08-10-2011, 10:02 AM   #14
Graeme S
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In my experience, once we get to the "Sorry isn't good enough" stage, there's very very very little that can be done to salvage a relationship. It has essentially degraded to where she will not listen to what you say, nor does she want to. This needs either a huge shift in your entire attitudes to change her opinions of what's going on in your life, or the end of the relationship.

If you plan on doing the full-on change, realize that this is a permanent change that you can never un-do for the rest of the relationship. If you change "back" to who you are now, then she will take it as a sign that you were just doing it to stop her from breaking up and it will make things that much worse.
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