You can't determine what a woman wants by asking them directly, if you do chances are you'll probably be mislead.
But I'm asking you to admit that what we said was damn right. That you know very well a man who's too available will soon be disposed.
Sure I can be happy for him now only to tell him down the road, "sorry to hear pal, don't worry plenty of fishes in sea." Don't be that guy that has to hear it, again. Most life lessons are learnt through pain, whether DUI or relationships, if you haven't learnt than you haven't been hit hard enough.
Dating is long term, it's very similar to working out. There are those who workout for a couple weeks, achieve results they want then simply fade back to old habits and lose their results. It'll be like this guy, he's got the chick now and he's given her the whole package, soon he'll the workout guy who lost his result.
"A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does."
you make a fuss, you're a Macho Boy (z-33, fine example
), if you go along with everything she proposes you're a wimp, a nice guy if you will.
You don't have to think like an asshole to get chicks, just think like a realist.
Is what I'm doing going to help me not just now, but within two months, within five months, will it help her stay until the next valentines or is it another case of forever alone?
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This is
slightly irrelevant, but just keep this
DEFINITION in mind:
Average Frustrated Chump: An AFC is a man who unknowingly kills the sexual and romantic interests of a woman through the very deeds and behaviors he believes should arouse them. This ironic outcome is usually attributed to a complete imbalance of qualities in the AFC, such as the extreme willingness to listen, understand and comfort a woman, while also sharply contrasting this by a concentrated effort to avoid sexual innuendos or advances of any kind, avoiding differing opinions or interests that may insinuate any incompatibility and the avoidance of telling a woman she is behaving wrong and/or improperly, even in cases when it's clear that she is.
Other typical traits and behaviors of the AFC include but are not limited to:
~An unprecedented ability to forgive a woman for hurtful and/or malicious acts.
~An unusual level of trust that fails to keep gullable behavior in check.
~The act of providing expensive or romantic gifts too readily and/or prematurely.
~The act of performing favors even when he feels he is being taken advantage of.
~The view that the majority of men are heartless dogs who chase women for sexual purposes only.
~An eagerness to display his romantic, chivalrous and sensitive qualities to prove he is not like other men.
~The act of changing who he is in an effort to impress a certain woman.
Source, urbandictionary