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i've been with my girlfriend for 4 years and a bit now
i've known her for almost my whole life, met her in elementary school when i was about 9, fast forward to near the end of highschool and we start dating and all is dandy and fine.
recently we've been fighting ALOT, and has got me thinking
we both dont share the same interests, i would like to go for a run while she would want to sit down and read a book, we both go to different school, both in different professions, both work totally different hours.
most of my friends dont like her, I've defended her every time someone lashes out, but lately it kinda doesn't feel that way, we're currently on a break, been a couple days and I miss her like crazy
i've been doing the same 'routine" for the last couple years and everything seems in place for me to go back to her, but at the same time in the long run, what is there for me
i'm not totally sure wether to go back or not, theres just this feeling floating around which is bugging me like hell
its not really easy to drop a 4 year relationship, any advice on what to do will help
sorry if it didn't really make sence, still kinda T__T right now
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i was in a similar position we always fought, different interests, opposite personalities different profession + hours all that
the biggest thing for me was training/gym i had to work my training hours around to be with her more just spend time with her more like 3-4 times a week and take her out the weekends make her feel special(im still figuring this one out lol) and she should do the same in return if she doesnt at least try to then move on
do your running some other time when it wont interfere with your quality time
i still get that feeling of wanting to move on quit a bit but in the end i still love her
we're about 4.5 years in this thing