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relationships that started in high school almost never last... because people change. people change a lot throughout their life... it isn't "failing" when you cannot work out a relationship.. BUT with that said, even in the future" when you run into a situation where you and or your partner start to drift apart, the only thing that will possibly save the relationship is sitting down and talking about it... when you don't communicate, you start to resent one another and it can go downhill really fast...
i believe the reason why divorce rates are so high and relationships never really last a very long time is because people constantly change... it isn't something we control.. you can want kids one day, and not the other.. you can want to travel everywhere one day, and or be content with living in one city the other... and that goes for your partner as well... in the end it is whether you both share the same philosphy/goals in life... the hard part is predicting whether you both will be in sync for the long run.
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