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Originally Posted by gdoh
i was in a similar position we always fought, different interests, opposite personalities different profession + hours all that
the biggest thing for me was training/gym i had to work my training hours around to be with her more just spend time with her more like 3-4 times a week and take her out the weekends make her feel special(im still figuring this one out lol) and she should do the same in return if she doesnt at least try to then move on
do your running some other time when it wont interfere with your quality time
i still get that feeling of wanting to move on quit a bit but in the end i still love her
we're about 4.5 years in this thing
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i work weekends and rarely get any days off during the week, she ONLY has weekends off and pretty much DEMANDS me to be there, i mean i like to see her, i thought to myself that i loved her and would do everything for her but there just so much going on in my life and its like why try so hard to be accommodating to her when she doesn't spend the effort to be with me