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Originally Posted by illicitstylz
holy fuck don't even listen to the advice in this thread, my god.
ITT. all beta males.
you were moving in the right direction with the flirting and physical contact, she didn't resist which shows that she has interest in you as you do for her. with you initiating the physical contact and being confident in your flirting, it showed you were a alpha male which kept her interested.
now here's where you fucked up and listen closely, you told her your feelings like some fruitcake and end up being a beta, now she lost interest.
what you should have done is not make yourself vulnerable( by admitting your feelings like a beta ), but cut contact with her. no msn/text/fb/calls.
result 1 - she doesn't call or text you, well then you've got your answer and you "next" her without any shame as you're the one that moved on.
result 2 (most likely if you have any sort of game and aren't a pussy ass beta)
- she does call/text you back, then you know she's interested and now YOU have her on the proverbial leash, and still shows you're an alpha male because you're confident enough to walk away and you're not the one that needs her.
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take it from this guy. you basically lost when you told her you liked her and didnt do anything about it. i personally do not believe in telling a girl you are trying to get with that you like her. it takes away from that feeling of anticipation and mystery that women love. when you tell a girl you like her and you dont do anything to progress the relationship you basically give your power away. if she doesnt say anything back she basically has control over how the relationship progresses. women dont like that they want the man to be in control. its kinda a turn off for them. when you told her you liked her i would of followed up by either making a move like a kiss or asking to go out on a date.
i think she did like you and its possible she still does (need more info). good luck!
sorry for the poor grammar i hate typing on the ipad.