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Old 09-03-2011, 05:52 PM   #8755
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Originally Posted by V4NC1TY View Post
thanks for the tips guise .. but yeah, i've bitched her out about all this shit before and she's a changed woman now. every time she does something wrong and i get angry, she just starts crying
we've been together for 14 months, so it's kinda hard to turn back now. i can manage
You, good sir, are an idiot. Unless you plan on being 'the backup' until she finds another guy who she'll ditch you for, DTMFA. Crying means fuck all. Ask anyone who's been through enough relationships, you decide to break up with someone and then they preempt you. You're surprised, you're shocked, you're sad...and you fight against the breakup.

Why? You want it. You don't want to be together with that person anymore, but being confronted with such a momentous sudden change makes you reject that change. You're not maintaining the relationship, you're rejecting change.


And that's what she's done. I look forward to hearing more stories of her crocodile tears, on the other hand.
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