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Originally Posted by RainyBM
Thanks for the inputs guys. What bothers me is that the "buddies" she refers to are mostly guys, that's just what worries me. But I know I gotta "trust" her. I want to talk to her about it, but I can't figure out a way to say so that she won't be offended or thinking "wtf you don't trust me?" or something along that line. When we hang out, from what I see, I know she cares a lot...but if she's 'true' that's another story...
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Sometimes the easiest way is to just sit down and straight up bring it up. Let her know how it makes you feel, not so much why it bothers you, but just that you're generally concerned. Does she have any concerns if you were to hang out often with your chick friends? Trust is always gonna be a two-way street and many people in relationships make the mistake of thinking that as the relationship grows, so will the trust. Trust is earned, and as long as a relationship has trust and communication, anyone can make a relationship work... unless of course feelings aren't there anymore... then that's a different story.
If you say that she's able to show she cares when she's with you, I think you'll be fine. Just let her "buddies" know that YOU'RE the one with her and you aren't letting it go. That or bulk up so they won't mess with ya
