[jeff19]

^ you said it yourself. don't make her a priority if youre not a priority for her. im going through pretty much the same thing... i have a busy life now that im focusing im school and working towards my career, but she's clubbing/drinking with her new found friends and that seems to be her new lifestyle atm. yet she still talks to me like she needs me. w'ere not tgt atm as well, which is why you don't need to invest more emotions as you should into her. acting on emotions and feelings from your heart will only fuck you over in the end, and hse will continue to manipulate your feelings because she knows that you still want her regardless of whether youre important to her or not. dont be an option to her when you can be a priority to someone more deserving of it.