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Originally Posted by Noir
The fact that you don't have to talk whilst still chilling together is a +. Don't forget that if she's dating you, means she's already interested in you. Stop getting life lessons from movies and you'll soon understand that first dates are far from "job interviews" where you have the onus of communicating, sales-pitching, and impressing your suitor.
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Haha yes maybe if she was sane, if only it was that easy with all women.
I disagree with the movie idea on the first date. I don't think it's a myth, it's just not preferred.
While you may have been successful on your movie dates, great, all the power to you. But there are women out there, we can call them Professional Daters, she'll go out with you to enjoy a complimentary movie date in town this week instead of staying home and watching reruns of sex and the city while eating pasta. If her fridge is empty, she'd be more than delighted to take up a mid-evening dinner date with you. In her mind, attention from an undesireable male is better than no attention at all.
She knows that her victim will not continue to lavish his attention and generiosity upon her if she doesn't give him a sense of hope and possibility. She's a master at leading males on, obviously the more beautiful she is the higher her standards, but that's not to say there are women out there who rate no more than 5 or 6 who are still full on Professional Daters.
Movie cost for two: $25.00 + some combo $10, $35. Two overpriced coffees would go for like $8? Plus, I wouldn't know if the date I'm sitting with beside in the dark for 2 hours is a serial killer, rigor mortis could take place within then while everyones starring at the big screen!
Some women date simply for the freebies, quick first dates closed with a kiss(don't care how conversative or shy she is) is an excellent way to filter out the good from the bad and to save yourself any time of grief.