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Old 10-05-2011, 04:06 PM   #9286
HappyDorky
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So, theres guy 1 and guy 2

guy 1 is my EX, we've been together for almost 2 years but half way through we have quite a few heated arguments about really stupid things but it goes on and off all the time and we usually make up by having sex or something and then it seems like nothing is wrong anymore but the problem keeps coming back

guy 2 , i met him at work, we talked and recently we hung out and got close and i kinda like him so when we hung out we kissed and heatedly made out alot.

during that day, guy 1 and I were having problems and then he wanted to break it and i said sure why not because I thought it would work out with guy 2

so yeah, guy 1 and I fought but he thought we were just temp breaking but i wanted a perm one and yea,

guy 2 and i got things going pretty quickly and im guessing it was too fast for him but i told him how im needy and everything and he said it was fine so i thought he was fine with it.

later on guy 1 and I are ok friends now solved alot, he knows about guy 2 etc.

but the thing is, for guy 2 hes not the type that would always text me or call me alot..
per day i get like maybe 10-20 messages from him when with guy 1 i usually text him all the time every 5 minutes theres a message etc. so i am not used to it

when im with guy 2 in person, hes really sweet he acts like he really likes me but thru text he seems like a whole new diff person..

anyways a month later, it feels likeee the communication has grown worse and worse. and then he got into a family problem and he ignored me for a week and then i kept texting him going like "why are u ignoring me" etc etc and i guess it was too much drama for him to handle

then he told me, i thought u were kidding when u said u were needy, but u werent .
u wanted to see me EVERYDAY . lesigh.

but when i asked him if he still wants to be with me he said he still does so im really confused.

anyways moral of story is what should I do ?

ugh maybe this is some immature story but Ive tried going for advice and everyone is saying leave him , but i dont want to
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