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Old 10-06-2011, 08:20 AM   #9308
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Originally Posted by Phozy View Post
Take some time off, figure out what you really want. You also need to respect the fact that he could be going through some hard times, and he needs some space, but after that, hes trying to warm back up to you for fucking up. Give it some time, if things continue to go down the hole, then get out.
Btw, there is no need to send msgs every few minutes. 10-20 msgs a day seems fine to me, both of you need to find your own way too.
Agreed.

I figure that you need to see that some guys can't do the clingy thing. If my gf sent me text messages every 5 minutes I could see that getting annoying very quickly. 10-20 messages per day is pretty good.

It's the question of: how long have you and "guy 2" been seeing eachother? He still might be playing it slow, and feeling you out.

If your seriously clingy to the extreme and he's not a good fit for you.. don't second guess yourself, just move on. Tons of fish, in the sea.


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