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Originally Posted by bman1828
^ So after one date are you in a exclusive committed and monogamous relationship? At the end of the day, it depends on our own personal beliefs and preferences. Thats why i said IF it was possible and everyone is aware of the situation.
Furthermore, I never said to date both long term with the intent on being a player. I am talking about getting to know both of them better and than decide. I don't think there is anything wrong with seeing more than one person at a time in the beginning stages and everyone knows about it. How else do you know? You educated yourself with as much information as possible. For example, if you were shopping for a new car, would you buy the first car you saw or would you do your research, compare, test drive and narrow down your choices?
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I never said after one date its automatically a monogamous relationship. Look at it this way, if either girl found out he was "dating" what would that say to them?
I think most females would think "ok, he's not that serious about me and he's testing the waters." Therefore causing her to
possibly lose interest/rethink her decision.
Your intentions sound great, but your logic is flawed. Cars do not have feelings, these girls do and as far as we know they both have feelings for the OP. I'm sure everyone here knows what it's like to have the person they want go for someone else and it's not a good feeling. Hence why I said these girls aren't going to just bend over backwards for him and wait for him to choose.