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Originally Posted by Lamboda
I don't believe in confessing your love so early because it'll just come off as creepy to a girl. You're basically giving her an ultimatum and ultimatums don't end well. "I love you will you be my girlfriend?" That's pretty much what you're asking. Sound good? No. Sounds more like: Can I be your boyfriend pretty please? I want an answer now! and it's probably going to be NO.
I suggest to not confess. Have a good time with her and ask her out. If she likes you then she'll send signals. Let her do the chasing. If you hadn't asked for her number or asked her out yet, grow a pair and do it. Girls instinctively know the male ego, and will let you down gently if it's a no.
It doesn't matter that guys are chasing her. Stand out by not confessing. Have a backbone and take charge, be the alpha male.
Here's a quote from my friend: Those who show hunger shall not eat.
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I don't think you have to confess your love to a girl. I am hoping that you just mean confess you like her, otherwise, listen to this guy.
If you can't even open up that channel, just give her a kiss and see what happens. If she pulls away, just say, oh well, I tried.
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Originally Posted by Culture_Vulture
OP: Insecure and way over your head.
Just fucking do it.
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As above :P