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Originally Posted by Noir
You're an idiot to the nth degree.
How can the OP calibrate properly when the crux of his query are calibration issues; since he's asking whether or not/or when is it appropriate for him to "pull the trigger" on the situation. His situation in particular, is just not as extreme as the examples you like to justify your posts with. Your blank "just do it" statement insinuates just that... "just do it"; as in now. not later, now.
idiots trying to sound slick by spamming societal cliches.  Beware the bad advices OP. There's a right place for: "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take","It's now or never", etc. type cliches; this is not it. |
So now you're saying what I'm saying = what I'm saying.
What are you pointing at?
I read the post, and I said to the OP, just do it. Now. Plain and simple.
In situations like these I find it hard to give advice like Noir the almighty with his deep and insightful solutions to every little possible minute detail of the supposed situation (which was promptly explained to us in 200 words).
Now what I
could have said was, "just do it when the time feels right", which by anybody's standards, is healthy and good advice. I also
could have stated the reasons for stating that the OP should "just do it", now, later, or at any other given time. But I didn't, because all of which just brings me back to what I
did say: "just fucking do it".
So, you can take your time and explain the pros and cons of doing (or not doing) whatever it is the OP ought to be doing, and any short and long term repercussions and/or rewards for doing so. But since the OP has his mind set on confessing, we can safely assume that sooner or later, he is going to just do it. And it may not be at the right time. It may not be now, it may not be in the near future. Hell, it may not even be when it matters any more. And if he doesn't...well, then don't I look silly.
So, I reiterate, VERY CAREFULLY, to the OP:
Just do it
(when the time feels very, very right)