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Originally Posted by Shades
I think I just got cheated on.
We broke up a couple weeks ago, after she came back from the States. I know I shouldn't have but I just checked her facebook and she listed herself as being in a relationship. Anniversary date was day she came back from the States.
I remember asking her that day if I can pick her up at the airport. She said no need as a friend is getting her.
She gave me false hope at the breakup, too. She asked me about my birthday which was coming up and also told me she would fly back(from the States where she will be living) to watch me at a competition. I'm disappointed as I thought she was better than this.
I had been feeling much better about the break up, up until I learned of this. I feel betrayed and crushed. I want answers! I feel like kicking that guy's ass and slapping her in the face. I'm not a woman beater by a long stretch but wtf!
Please help.
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tell her you need to speak to her and its urgent, and vent everything you just said to her. If she says otherwise and you still have that gut feeling that she's lying to you, she's not worth your time and you can do better. Breaking up is not easy, believe that. But in the end we can either chose to stay the same and be depressed, or go out and find someone/something that we love to be with/do and move on from the past. Sorry to hear that though, i know how it feels to be cheated on and it sucks
ps : or as the master troll zyzz says, move on which is the other part of my fail advise
