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Originally Posted by josayeee
Saw this posted on the RS twitter page haha!
Sounds you like you bent over backwards to all her demands and i would guess maybe even smothered her a bit. Not good dynamics for a relationship one person shouldn't have so much control. I got that from how you worded "she kept giving me chances to improve.". Basically she got bored knowing that the fate of the relationship rests in her hands. Women don't like that. Learn to set some boundries and stick up for yourself.
I'll be honest you sound young and experience tells me that she ain't coming back. Move on eventually you will feel better. It's going to suck for a bit but it's called growing pains homie!
As said before, avoid being friends with your ex as you need space. Don't focus on that friend cutting your grass that's just unneeded drama. You have some maturing to do so focus on ways to make yourself better. Goto the gym, eat better, read books etc.
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I'm gonna have to agree here. She kept giving you "chances to improve," meanwhile WHAT THE FUCK WAS SHE DOING? Sounds like she had you eating out of the palm of her hand..
A relationship is a 2 way street. If its rocky you BOTH work at it. She doesnt get to call the shots.
Bitches these days always have a false sense of entitlement. (Not all)
You know, the ones that expect their bf's to do this and that for them and carry the entire relationship otherwise they dont "love" them.
I could be completely wrong here, and maybe you kept hurting her the first year maybe thats why things were "rocky" but from how you worded it, it sounds like the two of you needed to work at it, TOGETHER.
I know this doesnt help you move on and I may have come off a little harsh, but it'll help you later on down the road when another bitch like that tries to walk all over you.