Thread: Speak it Out
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Old 12-23-2011, 12:32 PM   #10199
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Originally Posted by !Yaminashi View Post
I think he should do it. Not so much for revenge, but more for himself. Why should he put in the effort if she isnt going to? A relationship isnt take take take. You gotta give a little to get a little and it takes both of you to solve even little issues.

If she gets her panties in a bunch over him not texting/contacting her, then obviously she's going to have to compromise instead of letting him do all the work. If she isnt willing to do that, then he knows what he has to do, because clearly him voicing his concerns doesnt mean shit to her as of now
Depends. If I remember correctly he's in a pretty new relationship. Some girls just like to take, not because they are being selfish, but because they don't know better. I think it's just better that during the dating phase you find out stuff she likes to do and pretend you either a) like it, or actually like it, because she will be more inclined to ask you out. Also I don't think some girls realize how exhausting it is to always be the one that is trying to make the relationship, when it should be two sided.

I know it's pretty frustrating, but some girls are just bad at dating. I know some very attractive smart girls, who let there other things in their life take over and constantly complain why they are single, when they wont open up when someone gets interested in them.
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