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[Confidential] First time didnt go as well as expected
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True or False: smoking leads to desensitization
so last night i finally got together with a girl for the first time and things didnt go as well as i expected, the sex lasted 30-45mins (wasnt really keeping time but it went on for LONG) and i had to resort to rubbing it out. now i dont know if its because its my first time and im scared or is it because of my chain smoking menthol cigarettes (a pack a day) leading to desensitization down there.
a) i was afraid the condom would slip off the whole time
b) i was afraid i wouldnt last because it was my first time
c) it could be that i had a hard on for a long time that it lead to numbness before the session started, its like the whole time i didnt "feel much" down there
the girl said that maybe i smoke too much thats y its taking so long to finish, lol
right now im happy and sad its not funny...
please discuss
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