being the first time, ima have to blame the condom. Now i could be wrong, but im saying this from first hand experience. My first time i used a condom (duh, bitches be crazy naw mean? lol) and i felt that it took away a LOT of the feeling (comparing it to masturbating), thus the first time i did it..we went for so long without me finishing that we kinda just stopped lol
she enjoyed it tho so eh i couldn't complain i guess