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a) i was afraid the condom would slip off the whole time
b) i was afraid i wouldnt last because it was my first time
c) it could be that i had a hard on for a long time that it lead to numbness before the session started, its like the whole time i didnt "feel much" down there
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sounds like it's all in your head bro.
the condom isn't going to fall off unless you go soft and sex is all about enjoyment, you can't enjoy sex if you're constantly worried. Being you're first time, you're not going to fuck like a porn star.
If you feel numbness or no feeling, the condom might be a wrong fit (no homo)
its all about experimenting, I've tried so many brands with my girlfriend (even flavored condoms, wtf i know lol) and it's all about preference. Another thing you can do is change the position, it's always fun to grab the girl and throw her on his side/stomach and just go from there. Some girls like it rough so you really just have to get out of your comfort zone when it comes to sex.
maybe try doing it with some music in the background to set the mood (I can't count how plays my Avant CDs got) dim the lights and start with some foreplay until you're both horny and then do it like they do on the discovery channel.