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Originally Posted by Mr.HappySilp
Maybe go on a vacation, a romatic getway and see how things are. Try different things I guess.
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That's just a band aid solution. Guaranteed it will work, but only for the time being; it doesn't fix things when the couple gets back and things settle down to normal again.
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Originally Posted by BaoTurbo
No such thing as it's my problem, not yours. Problems are made to be solved, it's whether if you want to solve them or just screw it and throw everything away. Before you make any judgements or decisions, I would talk about it with her and seriously ask her what is making her this way lately. There is a reason for everything and I'm looking as if your relationship is a more mature one when you say "you want to propose", but in all seriousness, without the physical intimacy there won't be any constant feelings speaking honestly. I look at it as if you're a couple that has a child and working both full time so there won't be much time for intimacy, but the fact is it isn't so make things work.
Good luck =]
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Sex drive is inherent and can't be fixed by talking. Even if he pleads his case, and she genuinely sympathizes, it will only fix things temporarily.
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Originally Posted by Neva
Well in all seriousness two things come to my mind right away:
1. You're terrible in the sack
Maybe learn some new moves and get some skills so she's not thinking it's a "chore" that she doesn't like.
2. She's getting it on the side.
Chicks have needs just as much as us guys do.
I'd leave her either way. I'd still leave if it's something else. It's pretty obvious she doesn't have any respect for you with her lack of communication whether my guesses were right or not.
Too many girls in the sea willing to s your d to be hung up on one that won't.
My two cents.
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Wrong on both counts.
1. The lack of sex doesn't mean one is terrible in the sack. Or else you're condemning all married men as terrible lovers. Most of the time, it just means you've been together for a while.
It doesn't matter how attracted you are to each other, it doesn't matter how many techniques each of you know, there comes a point where you guys have done everything to each other, and explored everything about each other, and have done so in countless repitition that eventually, everything becomes or routine.
2. That being said, just because the sex is down doesn't mean neither you nor her are getting any on the side. Unless you're the standard emo-life-cynic.