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Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma
she sounds like a prude.
i know one, i feel sorry for her boyfriend.
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Actually, she's probably not. She probably desperately wants to have a normal libido.
I know it's hard for you guys to understand cause your parts, they work from the time you're ready for them too, hell even long before that.
Most women's don't. Not only are they thoughally shamed for touching and exploring themselves as youngsters, and when they do they're not user friendly and require more then just physical stimulation to function to actual completion. Most of the women I know didn't actually have an orgasim until they were in their 20s or 30s, many can't cum at all. Most women I know don't masterbate so they haven't a CLUE how to get themselves off. And many of the ones I know who can get themselves off still can't cum from having a penis in their vagina (as this doesn't actually give us the right stimulation in most positions unless your cock is the PERFECT size/angle what ever for our bodies).
Then even when all the physical stars align there's the mental component that needs to be tended to as well. Most women need to be in the right head space to cum. And they don't magically know 'I need to feel X Y Z' to get off, it takes a lot of exploration to find out what THAT is too. Again with out a manual or anyone even explaining what that means.
And even if ALL that has been taken care of there's a plethora of health issues that lead to hormone problems that kill the sex drive of women, some caused by medication (anti depressents, my aforementioned birth control experience, blood pressure medications, anti anxiety drugs, diabetes... I could go on and on).
The whole system is hard bloody work to manage and a lot of women don't get a handle on it till they are older, hence why we peak in our 30s rather then our late teens like you boys.
THAT said, like I said, if your libidos don't match it's still a deal breaker IMO. But that doesn't make the girl a prude.