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Prolowtone - Thanks for your advice. When I talked to her, she said shes always been this way even with her exes (not liking sex). She went to see a sex therapist before to try and see what was wrong and they said that she was an emotional person who needs full support from the SO but nothing physical. We don't go much out because we are both very busy with trying to make our careers, the only time we see each other is usually to eat dinner or grab a coffee.
Noir - Thank you for your input. I do feel neglected or taken for granted sometimes. Whatever that could help make her life easier I try to do for her. She thought something might be wrong with her. She says that she should go see a doctor to see if anything is wrong with her, but seems like she always puts it off or is too busy to make time to checkup.
Neva - Thanks for your 2 cents. But I believe Noir summed up most of what was on my mind. Its a much deeper issue then me being horrible in bed or shes cheating on me.
TheNewGirl - Thanks for chiming in. Please refer to my reply to Noir regarding a medical issue. That has been one of my thought that I should break off before I end up cheating, cuz that will only end up hurting her more in the end.
BaoTurbo - I meant "propose the offer to break up" like tell her I want to break up, she'd try to change, but as noir said it is most likely only temporarily. But I agree, without the physical intimacy I seriously feel like I am just he nicest best guy friend whos friendzoned for life. The one whos always there for her and helping her with what she needs, but never getting any lol. I am having a hard time seeing the difference between me as a boyfriend and one of her guy friends, seems like a thin line to me right now
!Yaminashi, Skinnypupp, melloman, JKam, Mr.Happyslip, chinezeboi, Durrann - Thanks for all the replies.
