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Originally Posted by El Bastardo
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Hm. Thanks for the reality check, guys. Apparently it looks like I'm in the wrong here. I must be missing something..
I don't know, I just don't like anyone going through my stuff. Or maybe it bothers me that I know she's looking. Sorry, I forgot to mention that I've caught her looking through my messages before.
In my mind, if I'm having a conversation with someone, I'm having a conversation with that person only. No one else is meant to see it. If there's something specific about anything I want to tell my girlfriend about, I'll tell her by choice; not have her find out anything she wants by snooping through my messages. Does that make sense? Or am I missing something?
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thats perfectly normal. you have a right to your own space away from your girlfriend. youre gonna go crazy if you dont. and she just might ask for more and more knowing that you give leeway like that
take hitler for example. they gave him poland, next thing u know, hes asking for all the jews in the world plus multi colored sprinkle donuts from every baker that wears a top hat