[Noir]

Wow you guys suck at cheating. So much so that even when you're not cheating... you guys give a tiny false sense that "you just might be."

I can give a girl my cellphone, let her check my messages, email, cellphone, view and hear my messages and still bang others without the gf knowing shit.


It's a relationship and there's a natural give and take. Right now you feel like you're being violated because you're not in a situation to doubt your position. However, should the time come that it's your turn to doubt her, you'd very much expect the same availabilities; which is:

* If you ask her if she's cheating, you expect the truth
* If you ask to if she's willing to confirm the truth (if she's not) she won't hesitate to accomodate. Whether that be allowing you to see her messages, etc. it doesn't matter.


The key to a successful relationship is if you can relate to her POV in a dispute; and put yourself in her shoes. Now I'm hardly a model for a successful relationship because I have no qualms about "cheating" nor "whoring" but I am good at "getting at girls heads"; and trust me, this is what they want.