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I agree with Berz. Grow some balls and draw a line.
I keep a passcode on my phone, my girlfriend doesn't know it. I also change the passcode every few weeks just in case she might have seen my opening my phone. Earlier when we dated she went through my texts, after that she lost the privilege to use my phone, and I added a passcode.
She complained about it at first, but I made it simple to her. I don't check your phone, or go through your texts, I expect the same. My phone is my privacy and my business, since she decided to break that privacy, she no longer hasa right to have access.
Every relationship should have boundaries to some point, if she doesn't trust you, tell her to kick rocks.
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