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Originally Posted by Syndicated
similar story to me too. I was planning on getting back with my ex of 5 years. I had really missed her and we talked a lot and were on the way back of getting into a relationship. Until one night I was at her place, we just chilled and chatted (no spooning or fooling around, no jokes) after I left she said dont ever come back over again. Confused as shit I called and was like wtf after a bunch of her excuses she stopped and goes "...and I'm kinda interested in _______". Which was a guy who was making an attempt to get her too. She complained about him a lot; about his cheapness, his blunt and rude personality, and lack of doing anything in life. But he started calling her out more. The lesson is "When she boat is close jump for it when yours is sinking".
Now I've accepted it. I was so full of resentment for now feeling like a 2nd option. So I dropped it cut all my ties with her. To my surprise she texted me "Hey...A shot in the dark. but will you be my valentine..?" I texted back asking what happened to the other guy her excuse: "I dont want to spend it with him". I ignored it for a whole day...and i replied with "No." 
Im done with this idiot. Anyways sorry for the off topic but to be honest I read somewhere: "You cant be friends with your ex if you still have feelings for them". It just doesnt work and when you hangout you'll get all the familiar feelings againt and feel nothing but shut down later. Move on and focus on yourself, its nice...sometimes. |
IMO if a woman talks about a guy a lot, whether its negative or positive, shes into him
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