I kinda stopped reading after "she didn't get along with anyone". Not disrespect, but if I had a gf, it would be really important to me if she got along with almost anyone like close friends of my folks.
I'm going to resolve your problems with her, not to fuel the fire, but to show you why:
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She dosent get along with anyone I know lol, she dosent have very much friends. When she does try to get to know my friends she a very plain jane boring. Me and friends like to joke around when we hang out she would just be in her little world. Kinda like the girl sitting in the back.
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Stated above.
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She always believe shes right. Even when her point is so stupid. I will explain mine, then she will use my point given and twist it with her words and say that was her original statement. Its an endless circle lol.
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We all have our times when we are right and wrong. I know, you can't win over women easily, but the best weapon a man has is reason. If you can't even use reason to show her at least a hint of wrong, then there's no point to even try, it's like talking to a brick wall. Circles is her way of making things look like she was right all along.
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She acts like a complete goof lol, then expects a good compliment. I shut her down with complete opposite lol. yeah im an asshole.
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She probably tries too hard
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When I rant to her my problems, she just agrees with me and never with anything clever to say other then the obvious. "Aww, poor baby" lol
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A gf is supposed to be able to share your problems with. Poor baby doesn't cut shit when we men have problems. Even if you don't know how to help us, even telling us "I'm sorry I can't help you with this, but at least you can rant things and I'll be your listener tonight" would be a damn good excuse. She's just literally throwing the problem aside and feeling sorry for you, but your intention is to discuss it with her hoping she could understand.
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She spends a lot of bits of free time to shop for things she wants to buy(ex. Bags, shoes, cloths etc.). I don't mind this, we both have a taste for nice things, however it only bothers me when she gets so into it and forgets about the world around her while the chance for friends, people interactions pass her by.
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She's a little over herself in making herself look good, she can't stop and look at how she should do it properly.
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She's is completely oblivious, to life lol, if that makes sense. Other then expensive handbags, heels, etc. She dosent know a single anything about our present world(Movies, songs, places to go, pretty much self interest or things people have in common).
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Being oblivious to the world is not a good thing either. Yea, not everyone updated on current events but at least take some time to take interest to have something to discuss with while at the dinner table or such.
I read the goods, and the goods are generally good as a friend, not as a girlfriend. Being a girlfriend means being more than just caring and being there when you need them. Just pointing things out for you man, I'm not trying to make things worse or flame her but just showing you how its supposed to be even though no one is perfect, at least understand that and acknowledge it.