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Originally Posted by BaoTurbo
I kinda stopped reading after "she didn't get along with anyone". Not disrespect, but if I had a gf, it would be really important to me if she got along with almost anyone like close friends of my folks.
I'm going to resolve your problems with her, not to fuel the fire, but to show you why:
Stated above.
We all have our times when we are right and wrong. I know, you can't win over women easily, but the best weapon a man has is reason. If you can't even use reason to show her at least a hint of wrong, then there's no point to even try, it's like talking to a brick wall. Circles is her way of making things look like she was right all along.
She probably tries too hard
A gf is supposed to be able to share your problems with. Poor baby doesn't cut shit when we men have problems. Even if you don't know how to help us, even telling us "I'm sorry I can't help you with this, but at least you can rant things and I'll be your listener tonight" would be a damn good excuse. She's just literally throwing the problem aside and feeling sorry for you, but your intention is to discuss it with her hoping she could understand.
She's a little over herself in making herself look good, she can't stop and look at how she should do it properly.
Being oblivious to the world is not a good thing either. Yea, not everyone updated on current events but at least take some time to take interest to have something to discuss with while at the dinner table or such.
I read the goods, and the goods are generally good as a friend, not as a girlfriend. Being a girlfriend means being more than just caring and being there when you need them. Just pointing things out for you man, I'm not trying to make things worse or flame her but just showing you how its supposed to be even though no one is perfect, at least understand that and acknowledge it.
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I agree with you, as its also important to me as well for her to get along with my close friends and family or at least try for that matter.
The reason part. All i use is my reason. After the year i realize to let her make her point before i say mine to avoid conflicts of twist. BUT somehow, it would end up with having a second opinion with some how my reason falls in there. Theres just no winning. stresses the fuck outta me.
Your right, the more and more i think about it, shes seems as if better off as my friend then anything. and her being oblivious resulted in us repeating same conversions we have everything we go for dinner etc. its retarded lol and nothing is ever new. E
Example she dosent even have a favourite genre for songs that we can share each others interests, she just listens to what i listen too. lol