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Originally Posted by SumAznGuy
As much as your intentions are just to be a good friend, you have to remember that she is in a relationship and you are of the opposite sex. How do you think your GF would feel that you are texting this girl or trying to go to the mall or hang out with this girl?
Be a good friend and take a step back and let her know you are there for her when she needs you but don't be too needy and actually give her some space. If she feels like you are a friend worth keeping, she will stay in contact with you. If not, then move on and get a GF.
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In a secure, mature relationship having friends of the opposite sex should be a completely irrelevant issue. I know my girlfriend speaks to other men at school, work and has male friends, but since it's a secure relationship I have no reason to believe she would cheat. If in a relationship you believe that your partner would cheat simply because they have a friend of the opposite sex, there are deeper issues that need to be addressed.
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Originally Posted by SumAznGuy
I know you think you are mature for a 24 year old, but this comment states otherwise. You know who my best friend is? My wife.
Same thing will happen for you.
My best advice to you is go out and find a girl friend.
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My relationship is my relationship, my friends are my friends, I see no reason why the two cannot be maintained as separate entities as a person matures.