Dude you're not even her boyfriend and you're clingy as fuck. At least his title as her bf grants him some entitlements; as a friend, your benefits are only that born out of courtesy.
You're overstepping your territory here bigtime.
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder
i was in this same situation too. A girl that i met in HS and i became close friends, we talked a lot n hung out and what not. Eventually she got a bf but nothing really changed between us and i guess he got insecure. She basically told me the SAME things your friend is telling you, and she cut me out of her life. bbm/txt/fb just everything lol i said to myself well fuck you then, if you can't keep a friendship between cus of your bf then fine by me, i dont need you in my life.
Just cut her out man, she doesn't know what she's missing. Relationships dont always last forever, but friendships do
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Are you sure about that or is that another useless cliche? Because I can destroy that in just a few steps.
1. In the bigger picture, when life starts to get serious ie. marriage, kids, mortgage, career, etc... you're relationship with your partner will be your best chance of everlasting companionship
1a. Small relationships are the stepping stone to big relationships.
2. Friendships don't last forever. Just like you, their life will develop their own priorities such as the afforementioned: career, marriage, kids, etc; and you will find yourself seeing less and less of them, and you will find them putting more and more priorities over you (and understandably so).
3. Good friends and I mean REAL GOOD FRIENDS should be your friend no matter what; whether you see them everyday, only get to see them once a month, or haven't seen them for a while. People who will only be your friend as long as you meet their minimum requirement of maintenance such as X amount of time chatting, X amount of time hanging out, responding within X amount of time for texting are not your REAL friends.
So with #3 in mind, people like this is not actually what anyone should consider "a good friend."