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Originally Posted by MindBomber
I've been in the exact same situation you're currently in bro, I can sympathize with the predicament and completely understand what you're going through right now.
The unfortunate reality is there's nothing more you can do, aside from hope she comes to her senses and ignores the jealous boyfriend. Your friendship clearly meant something to her, because she maintained the relationship with you despite it continually being a significant issue with the boyfriend. At a certain point however, even many strong willed people snap and give up friends to maintain relationships.
Fortunately, girls willing to bend to the pressure of an insecure boyfriend and give up a good friend are in the minority.
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Fuck, so many things requiring response and I'm still on the 1st page:
1st of all, what makes everyone think that it's the "insecure bf" that's at work here? Because of the word of some hopeless romantic that whose in denial with himself about his platonic relationship?
The girl entered a relationship with another guy. That means she digs/likes the guy. Is it totally unreasonable for a girl to choose to spend majority of her free time with said boyfriend? FYI, this is fairly common especially with new relationships. Wait til things settle down and then they'll start gradually hanging out with their friends again.
OH and FYI #2. What makes you think he started a FB page just for you and to show off to you. A little bit self centered much. Here's a thought, I didn't jump into the FB bandwagon at least a year or 2 after it became big.
You know why I joined, because my gf at the time set it up for me so I can have a relationship status which shows her as my partner. Yes women can be like that when they're excited about something. You don't think it's common... ask around how many guys get griefed by their new gfs when their slow to changing their relationship status to "in a relationship with..."
So that being said, who says this isn't all her and her being excited with her new relationship? rather than a supposed "jealous bf"? Looks to me like you're painting pictures you want to see to accomodate an injured ego, or.... broken heart
Have you seriously been in relationships of your own?