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Originally Posted by Noir
Fuck, so many things requiring response and I'm still on the 1st page:
1st of all, what makes everyone think that it's the "insecure bf" that's at work here? Because of the word of some hopeless romantic that whose in denial with himself about his platonic relationship?
The girl entered a relationship with another guy. That means she digs/likes the guy. Is it totally unreasonable for a girl to choose to spend majority of her free time with said boyfriend? FYI, this is fairly common especially with new relationships. Wait til things settle down and then they'll start gradually hanging out with their friends again.
OH and FYI #2. What makes you think he started a FB page just for you and to show off to you. A little bit self centered much. Here's a thought, I didn't jump into the FB bandwagon at least a year or 2 after it became big.
You know why I joined, because my gf at the time set it up for me so I can have a relationship status which shows her as my partner. Yes women can be like that when they're excited about something. You don't think it's common... ask around how many guys get griefed by their new gfs when their slow to changing their relationship status to "in a relationship with..."
So that being said, who says this isn't all her and her being excited with her new relationship? rather than a supposed "jealous bf"? Looks to me like you're painting pictures you want to see to accomodate an injured ego, or.... broken heart 
Have you seriously been in relationships of your own? |
I have no idea why you quoted my response in this reply, because I never discussed facebook and that appears to be the subject of your post.
I have had 4 relationships: a three year, one year and two brief three month stints. Whatever point you were trying to make, but it's completely groundless given what I said.
The boyfriend is uncomfortable with people of the opposite sex texting her, that information was relayed to the OP through the female friend and signals the boyfriend's attitude towards other men as a whole. Regardless of any qualities the OP may have, I take the boyfriend being uncomfortable with other men as a whole as proof of an immature, childish and insecure attitude towards life. There is no other explanation for the behavior and many RS'ers who disagree likely have the same qualities, it's hardly uncommon.
There is absolutely no reason why two people of the opposite sex cannot maintain a friendship, including if they are both attractive people. All my friends are female, most of them are extremely attractive, many of them have told me I am attractive, I have on occasion ended a drunken night in bed with several of them partially unclothed and did nothing but sleep. I once woke up in my friends bed, we'd had a lot to drink the previous night starting at a club and ending at her place, it was a "girls night" to which I was also invited. In the morning, her boyfriend being a lonely little troll the night before, decided to come over and surprise her by making breakfast. Surprise, I was sleeping next to his girlfriend, myself wearing boxers and her a thong and bra. Nothing happened, my parts and her parts aren't magnetically attracted to each other, but his response was definitely amusing. Between the two of us, gender is irrelevant, sleeping next to each other is no different than if we were siblings or of the same sex. If he had been mature enough to understand that my presence wouldn't have been a secret and they might still be together, his loss.