[XplicitLuder]

Originally Posted by Noir

Dude you're not even her boyfriend and you're clingy as fuck. At least his title as her bf grants him some entitlements; as a friend, your benefits are only that born out of courtesy.

You're overstepping your territory here bigtime.



Are you sure about that or is that another useless cliche? Because I can destroy that in just a few steps.

1. In the bigger picture, when life starts to get serious ie. marriage, kids, mortgage, career, etc... you're relationship with your partner will be your best chance of everlasting companionship

1a. Small relationships are the stepping stone to big relationships.

2. Friendships don't last forever. Just like you, their life will develop their own priorities such as the afforementioned: career, marriage, kids, etc; and you will find yourself seeing less and less of them, and you will find them putting more and more priorities over you (and understandably so).

3. Good friends and I mean REAL GOOD FRIENDS should be your friend no matter what; whether you see them everyday, only get to see them once a month, or haven't seen them for a while. People who will only be your friend as long as you meet their minimum requirement of maintenance such as X amount of time chatting, X amount of time hanging out, responding within X amount of time for texting are not your REAL friends.


So with #3 in mind, people like this is not actually what anyone should consider "a good friend."

it was just a useless cliche, sounded good in my head haha, you make complete sense though