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Originally Posted by Noir
I quoted you because you just happened to be the last guy out of the multiple that echoed the sentiment that this is all the boyfriends' doing; and his alleged insecurity. You can keep going down that road because that's not where I was going. What I was saying was... Maybe the boyfriend is not jealous. Maybe the boyfriend is not insecure. Maybe the boyfriend is not controlling.
Why?
What if it's the girl who chose to prioritize her socialization time in favour of her new boyfriend?
What if it's the girl who chose to limit her boundaries of friendly-closeness to accomodate her own definition of relationship & exclusivity.
What if it's the girl who encouraged her bf to get a facebook page so that she can connect with him via social media. ie photo tagging etc, lovey dovey status updates and etc. (i mean, women do do this you know)
Are those not all reasonable? More reasonable than the lengthy villification the OP has gone through to justify the idea that the bf is conspiring against him?
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All those points are reasonable, I would not conclude the boyfriend is jealous or insecure as a result of the creation of a facebook page or a person having more limited time to hang out.
The inclusion of the information that the boyfriend does not like people of the opposite sex texting her is what my opinion is based on.