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Originally Posted by blee123
what wrong is it for a guy to check up on a close friend of mine if i havent heard from them for 3 weeks? I am sure you do that to your closer friends too.
You pal are the one assuming things here. Please do not comment on here if you are going to continue to judge your point of view on me.
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1. It's a free country. If you feel that you have the freedom to villify a person other than you, I don't see why I couldn't. The difference is, you're in a setting where he (the bf) can't defend himself, where as you can when we discuss our differences of opinion.
2. Nothing wrong with checking up on friends as in.... "Hey, how's that guy doing?" But checking up on their safety? That's hinting a bit close to "having special interest no?"
3. Is there any possibility. ANY? that you have misinterpreted your relationship with the girl; that the relationship is not as close as you think?
4. Is there any possibility that the reason why either the girl, or in the bf's best interest, they're distancing themselves from you is because you're too close. Like creepily close; as in, you have your own expectations of entitlement with his girlfriend? (whatever the hell those may be)