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Originally Posted by Noir
2. Nothing wrong with checking up on friends as in.... "Hey, how's that guy doing?" But checking up on their safety? That's hinting a bit close to "having special interest no?"  |
If I normally hear from a close friend a few times a week and then inexplicably I don't speak to her for three weeks, I would probably be a bit confused and might ask a mutual friend what she's been up to. If you chalk that up to a sense of concern, that's natural for any guy in any type of relationship with any girl, men have a natural urge to care for women.
A friendship between two men is very different, obviously.
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Originally Posted by Razor Ramon HG
If you were in the BF's shoes, I'm sure you would feel the same uneasiness. I mean, if you worry this much about someone that's not even your GF..  |
Depends, I'm a really laid back person.
If I'd met the guy and he seemed to have an honest interest in nothing but friendship, then I wouldn't be uneasy, I probably just think the guy needs to chill out. In addition, I trust my girlfriend and don't expect that she would cheat, even if prompted with an opportunity.
My comment was more directed towards relationships in general though, so to clarify, it's my opinion that most men are uncomfortable with their girlfriends have friendships with people of the opposite sex regardless of any other factors.