REVscene Automotive Forum - View Single Post - Friend put our friendship on the line over her bf (Serious post) **need advice**

k2_alpha · 01-30-2012, 09:08 PM

Three things.

1. Blee123 and Noir, there is a multi quote option. Please use it. If you post consecutive posts, it is considered inflating your post count (spam.)

2. Blee123, this section is for advice. You must have an open mind as not all answers will be to your liking.

3. I agree with the previous posters. You need to back off. It doesn't matter if you are mad or worried. She chose to cut contact with you BECAUSE HER BF is MORE important to her THAN YOU. Unless you have solid suspicions/evidence, that she is being abused, then you should respect her decision.

As a 24 year old, you should be mature enough to respect other people's decisions. She chose her path. If it crumbles beneath her, you can step in when it does. Until then, back off and stop messaging her friend for information. It is a blatant disregard for her wishes and it also causes you to appear as a creep.

01-30-2012, 09:08 PM	#76
k2_alpha MoD Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: a rainy city Posts: 3,486 Thanked 1,805 Times in 227 Posts Failed 124 Times in 20 Posts	Three things. 1. Blee123 and Noir, there is a multi quote option. Please use it. If you post consecutive posts, it is considered inflating your post count (spam.) 2. Blee123, this section is for advice. You must have an open mind as not all answers will be to your liking. 3. I agree with the previous posters. You need to back off. It doesn't matter if you are mad or worried. She chose to cut contact with you BECAUSE HER BF is MORE important to her THAN YOU. Unless you have solid suspicions/evidence, that she is being abused, then you should respect her decision. As a 24 year old, you should be mature enough to respect other people's decisions. She chose her path. If it crumbles beneath her, you can step in when it does. Until then, back off and stop messaging her friend for information. It is a blatant disregard for her wishes and it also causes you to appear as a creep. Last edited by k2_alpha; 01-30-2012 at 09:25 PM.