Okay if you're really legitimately looking for help and not just looking for people who will eat up your sob story, listen to this:
It doesn't matter how much you say to yourself or to others that all your interests are strictly platonic. All that matters is how your actions are interpreted by others.
Despite your repeated assurances that you have no romantic feelings for her, look how many people are convinced otherwise. Take a good look at the plethora of people present and see how your actions look from the outside-in. Now do you blame the gf and the bf for distancing themselves with you with respect to their new-found relationship?
Sometimes it doesn't matter what people say. It's really more about what people do.
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Originally Posted by SumAznGuy
Why? Cause you want her back in your life so bad that you want her and her bf to break up? You sure you only want her as a friend?
All this tells me otherwise.
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Originally Posted by PeanutButter
you obviously got feelings for her
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Originally Posted by Glove
this guy is in serious denial
if you had no interest in her romantically,
why would you even give a shit? go find another friend, there are millions of them out there
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Originally Posted by VrrM604
Only you would really know, but it does sounds like you have feelings for this friend of yours...a little more than being frriends
I think it's best to put some distance between yourself and herself right now (which I guess she is doing). If it is meant to be, it's meant to be...
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Originally Posted by Araaadi
imo. Op you're being a little bitch. Not to be rude buts it's pretty obvious she wants nothing to do with you so her bf can be happy. Stop thinking about her. It seems obvious you have more than friendly feelings for her if you worry this much. I've been in a situation like this before, just drop her from your life and watch her come crawling back after they break up.
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Originally Posted by parm104
SEE what you did there! Nobody asked if she was attracted to you! You brought that issue up yourself and you BASICALLY implied that you don't want to give yourself false hope. Smart move, it's easier to move on that way.
Pretty girls with a good personality are hard to find...why do you need both for a friend??? Ideally you'd want that from a PARTNER...
You are in denial!!
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