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You've kinda been a dick for a while now (whether intentionally or not.) A few times is maybe okay (many guys don't even slip up and do that at all) but you continuously did it KNOWING that your actions would affect her and possibly hurt her.
Put yourself in her shoes and imagine how she feels...
- Why is he doing this?
- Does he not like me?
- Am I not good enough for him?
- What's wrong with me?
- Am I a bad GF?
- Am I not as attractive as these other girls...
And that just touches the surfaces of the things that might've been going through her head. She may have gotten to a point where she became used to these actions and overtime became emotionally distant. In return, things that probably didn't bug her before, are now starting to bug her and they seem trivial. But if you had your ducks in order, didn't mess shit up cheating and flirting with other girls, she probably wouldn't take up issues with these trivial, small things.
Look @ it this way. Relationships are like being on a teeter-totter. If you're both not on at the same time, one person is just going to be sitting alone and not going to be able to move anywhere. However, if you're both giving equal amount of energy and commitment, then you'll be able to have some fun and go somewhere with it. After while, she probably realized she's not getting out as much as she's putting in (that's what she said!)
At this point, I THINK you need to stop and think about things. Figure out what YOU WANT. Do you want to be in this? Are you just in it for the sake of being in it? Because if you don't you need to man up and say something than keep causing this girl hurt and pain for no reason. If you DO, then again, you need to man up, turn a new leaf and become a little more sensitive and considerate of her feelings and then prove that it's not just an act and that it's a consistent change towards positive behavior.
My 3 cents...
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